
Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.
Just as there is a natural ebb and flow to life, so too is there a continuous flow of various people who serve as important mirrors in our lives. I give thanks for these Blessed gifts, who so Beautifully reflect myself back to me, the magnificence, strength, positivity, passion and compassion in me, the cycle of growth in my life, and also my shadows, the disowned self, where I could make some improvements. I’ve watched as people come into my life, their stories so similar to mine, we’re both blown away by the synchronicity. We assist each other in our current processes, then, more often than not, part ways with Loving appreciation for the lessons, support and time shared. I’ve learned to detach from the outcome of the details, trusting that the ebb and flow of our sharing shall all be in perfect time.

Friends are the mirror reflecting the truth of who we are.
I have been very Grateful for the presence of a few incredibly Beautiful womyn in my life of late. They are strong, intelligent, big-hearted, generous and Beautiful souls with ties that bind us in mutual healing and personal growth. They arrived both in person and on the internet, an acquaintanceship blossomed suddenly into an Amazing connection, or a new meeting became an immediate alliance. We share, laugh, cry, support, nudge, and even push, acting as important mirrors. We impart wisdom and share tools. They are Loving and inspiring, reflecting the commitment I’ve made to authenticity, happiness and living my best life. They are so important to me, and I am Grateful for their presence.

The best mirror is an old friend.
Sometimes, these mirrors depart from my life, only to return again at a later date, once again reflecting the choices made, and how those choices altered the course of our existence. A couple of BeLoved friends returned recently simply to thank me, then disappeared again. Awwwwe! I Love them so much, and they brought joy into my life when we shared stories, assisting each other in healing processes and personal development. One friend felt it important to write and share with me that I would never be forgotten. The sentiments are mutual. I wish all of the Beautiful mirrors many Blessings on their continued paths, and would welcome their return into my life. I also know that the gifts we gave each other have circled ’round, and shan’t be again.

The world is a looking glass and gives back to every man the reflection of his own face.
Sometimes people arrive to reflect a disowned energy we need to embrace, other times we find people who reflect our growth, all are mirrors in our lives acting as important teachers. Their presence can be a short lived journey through a bank line, or a treasured lifetime friendship. How we feel about them often reflects how we feel about the parts of ourselves reflected by them, and in this awareness, growth can occur. What an amazing gift! The only constant is change, so as people show us where we’ve developed, and where stagnation has occurred, we can continue to move forward along the path in greater awareness of self. How have people in your life been Beautiful mirrors to you, Dear Reader?
October 22nd, 2009 at 10:11 pm
I reflect on the mirrors in my life daily. They are a wonderful, fantastic gift! You have expressed the ways mirrors bless and enlighten us so well. Thank you.
October 23rd, 2009 at 7:29 am
Antonia—this is one very beautiful post. Thanks!
October 23rd, 2009 at 10:03 am
Welcome, Elle! Thank you for your visit and thoughtful comment!
How Lovely that you make mirroring a daily practice! Excellent!
Blessings to you,
~Antonia
October 23rd, 2009 at 10:04 am
Thank you, Dick! Very kind of you, and much appreciated!
Love and Blessings,
~Antonia
October 26th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
Antonia, I am blessed to witness this post in action in your life on a daily basis. You are one powerful manifester! And I love watching your life unfold so beautifully. Love, Mom xoxo
October 26th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
Awwwwe! Thanks, mom! I’m Grateful for the Beautiful Blessings and unfoldings!
Love you,
Antonia
xoxox
November 3rd, 2009 at 6:15 pm
Dorje Yudronma is said to be one of Tibet’s chief protectors. SHE holds an arrow with the five colours in her right hand and a white silver mirror in her left. The lifestory of the Longchen Nyingthig yogi Jigme Gyalwai Nyugu (from the Dzogchen Lineage of Nyoshul Khenpo) relates that an emanation of this deity appeared and offered him food once when he was suffering hardship and poverty. Dorje Yudronma is associated with a divination practice which uses a mirror.
Thank you Antonia.
November 17th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
http://www.aabronson.com/art/mirrormirror/lookingglass/tibet1.htm
Today on the 7th Paranirvana of Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche, I remember the compassion of Antonia and Kathryn, and ALL of my friends.
May we who have shared time at the feet of the sleeping maiden, Tamalpais, all awaken to the lords and ladies of the dance.
Om Tare Tam Soha
November 18th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
Thanks, Bill!
Blessings,
Antonia
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:41 pm
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