The Company We Keep

As I settle back into daily life in California, I cannot help but reflect upon the relationships to which I am returning, as well as the people with whom I just shared almost three months in Costa Rica. It was an absolute gift that despite having journeyed to Central America by myself I never felt as though I was alone. Almost immediately I found a few precious friends with whom I had a great deal in common and shared illuminating discussions and adventures. We shared our inspirations, goals, and knowledge, and I was able to learn and grow tremendously. With the ‘Surfer Goddess’ (as I call her) I shared deep discussions about conscious creation, and learned a new level of comfort and greater respect for the ocean. From my herbalist yogini friend I expanded my knowledge of plants, herbs, and foods for healing, and returned to a yoga practice which I had really missed. Another Amazing and clever friend helped to expand my business knowledge, and showed me a level of bravery which has inspired me tremendously. How Blessed indeed to have such Gorgeous modeling in my friendships. After all, the company we keep should be consciously considered, as life is short and it is extremely important that we surround ourselves with those who support living our best life.

I have been meditating upon the people with whom I give my time and attention, asking what they reflect in me, and looking at whether or not they accept me as I am while supporting my growth, a delicate dance. In my post The Beautiful Mirrors I wrote about the gift of friends who enter our lives to reflect both the Beauty and shadows of our inner self. These Amazing mirrors serve to bring greater awareness of self, both in our strengths and our disowned energy which may be needing attention. Taking this a step further, I find it important to look at the energy behind the relationships in my life. Are they respectful and Loving? Do they reflect that which I used to be, or that which I am working towards? Are they people I admire who lift me up, or people who drain my energy and hold me down? While it can be sad to let people go, it is important to do what is for our highest good, and perhaps the season has come to an end. We are influenced by that which with we surround ourselves, so taking stock of relationships can be a healthy practice. Taking care of ourselves in relation to the company we keep does not always mean having to cut people out of our lives entirely. Loving people from afar can sometimes be the best for all concerned, and allow room for new gifts to come into our lives. As people move through, be it for a reason, season, or lifetime, I give thanks for the Blessings they’ve bestow, and wish them all the best in their lives. How do you feel about the company you keep, Dear Readers?

Love and Blessings,
Antonia