The Ripple Effect

Posted by: on Nov 15, 2008 | 8 Comments

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And so there remain Faith, Hope, Love–these three; and of these the greatest is Love.

~1 Corinthians 13:13~

When I was sent this quote by a friend earlier in the week, it felt very on track with a theme that had been dancing lovely circles ’round my brain for days, and I felt compelled to look it up. I came upon many parallel translations, the main difference being the final word, which has been translated as “love” in some Biblical versions, and “charity” in others. Hmmm… well, most certainly interchangeable, as charity is love, and love is charity. In one commentary I read, it stated that, “Charity is love to God creating in us love towards our neighbor. ” Hey, and if that’s what it takes, I say, “Yes, indeed!” ;-) Do unto others, right? But it goes so far beyond that for me.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about “The Ripple Effect”. You know? How positive thoughts and actions expand outward to effect others lives, who in turn will add to the “ripple” with their own positive thoughts and actions. Paying it forward. The truth is, we will never really know the full effect of how our actions effect those with whom we come in contact, which in turn passes along that energy to others. A simple “hello”, a genuine smile, compliment, or compassionate glance, can all have such beautiful effects of which we’ll never really be aware.

A few months back my beautiful mother was reading the book Three Cups of Tea and I watched as it sparked a desire in her to contribute to the village of Askole, Pakistan, which she was not only reading about, but with which she was also quickly falling in love. My mom is a conscientious Global Citizen of our Earth, with a very generous heart. I have been privileged to watch her share wherever she can, but this time I watched in awe as her latest project took on a life of its own and rippled beautifully outward around the globe. Go mom! ;-)

From her initial, “It’s really cold there, so I want to make scarves for the children in Askole! Do you think my readers would help?” came her post Get Out Your Knitting Needles! Sure enough, people around the globe volunteered to knit scarves for the children. Other bloggers became inspired, writing about the project, myself included, asking their readers to knit scarves for the “Scarf Initiative”. If my hands were properly healed, I would have knitted a scarf as well, but ummm.., my last attempt was on a 14-hour-day on the set of “The OC”, and… well, I would feel sorry for the kid! Honestly! Just mean! lol But, there was another role I could play, and that was to hear mom through both the joys and some of the ‘glitchy’ stuff associated with getting scarves to a very remote village in Pakistan. Each time she explained a new challenge with which she was being faced, she would laugh her gorgeous laugh and accept the new challenge as a part of the journey. She was always quickly rewarded for her positive spirits with even more support and assistance from friends, family and “strangers” alike. The scarves, hats, socks and mittens poured in! Each box was happily and most gratefully received by mom, who called to share her excitement. :-)

This excitement will be carried forth even further this 20 November, when she hosts a showing of the scarves at a beloved local watering hole, Tierra Art Garden Wine. The next day, all of the scarves will journey from where they were lovingly collected in Northern California, to their new home in Askole village. It’s hard to know of the positive effects one has by sending soft, warm articles of clothing lovingly handmade with the greatest intentions to a remote village on the other side of the planet, but I’m venturing to guess that the ripples shall continue. Beautiful work, mom! Blessings to you and all who contributed. May the gifts arrive safely and be received with the love/charity with which they were given.
Please click here to view the Gorgeous scarves people made and to stay updated on the Scarf Initiative.

8 Comments

  1. Lisa
    November 15, 2008

    Beautiful blog..I so believe in playing it foward .I also smile at strangers alot Its funny but Id say 99 percent of the time they smile back Try it its fun..Bless you and your mom for your giving hearts.. Love is all there is after all.. Wish I could knit I tried to knit a scarf once I got 10 rows done in 2 years LOL dont laugh at me I have other talents I think haha.

  2. Antonia
    November 15, 2008

    gmao!! I’m certain you do! :-) Thank you, Beautiful Lisa!!
    Yes, Love is all there is! and, I too enjoy sharing smiles
    with strangers, and do so often! It’s a Wonderful energy
    exchange of Love! :-) Thank you for being a Blessing in
    my life, Lovely Lady! You’re much appreciated!
    Love and Blessings,
    Antonia

  3. Kathryn
    November 16, 2008

    Good morning, dearest daughter. I’m really touched by your lovely post. Thank you so very much for bringing our project to light and for reminding us of all the unseen reverberations that surround each action we put forth. Awesome responsibility–and opportunity! Love you!
    Mom xoxo

  4. Antonia
    November 16, 2008

    Good Morning Beautiful Mom! :-)
    You are more than welcome! It is much deserved!
    Thank you for being a continued inspiration! :-)
    Love you,
    Antonia
    xoxox

  5. Pamela Polland
    November 16, 2008

    Hey Beautiful FGD,
    It‘s been awhile since I visited your blogsite, so I spent some time this morning reading everything I‘ve missed the last couple of months!! As always, your writing is so clear and personable, and the subject matters always interesting, educational and inspiring. Bravo!!! Being a friend of your mom‘s and also very moved by her recent “community service” offering of the Scarf Initiative, I‘m very proud of you for honoring her and this project in your public forum. Bravo again!!!
    You GO, girl! You are The Best Fairy God Daughter Ever!!
    Happy Fall (in love),
    Proud to be your FDM, p.

  6. Shady Gardener
    November 22, 2008

    What a Beautiful post; photographs as well as your entry. :-) Your mom has a warm heart and generous spirit… and touched a whole set of people who were able to respond in time. :-) (She waited a bit on me! Thank heavens!)

  7. Antonia
    November 30, 2008

    Awww!!! Thank you, FGM!!! I really appreciate that!!!

    Mom’s “Scarf Initiative” is an Inspiration! It was my pleasure
    to honour her, the project and the wonderful participants!!! YAY!

    Thank *you* for taking the time to catch up and comment!!!
    You’re the Best Fairy God Mother Ever!!!! ~Muah!~
    Cali *hugs* and Lotsa Love,
    FGD/Antonia

  8. Antonia
    November 30, 2008

    Welcome Shady Gardner! Thank you for your visit and comment!
    Yes, mom’s project is one of many I have been Blessed to bear witness to in this lifetime! She has a Wonderful, Loving heart and I am very proud of her! Awww! How sweet that you were able to participate!!!
    I’m certain the kindness will be appreciated a great deal in Pakistan!

    Many Blessings,
    Antonia

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