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A goal is a dream with a deadline.”

Since we are the creators of our own Universe, it’s important to know precisely what it is we want. Not having goals is similar to sailing a ship across the Atlantic without a map. Goals, like maps, help you get to your destination much faster than sailing through life randomly. So, let’s explore how we can set some goals. I know that it’s easy to get frightened by the immensity of the task at hand and want to run from it, while others will push through toward the Promised Land of a perfectly manifested creation for their time here on Earth. I invite you to experience this as a Joyful, Fun Adventure of exploring what your heart desires in different areas of your life, knowing that you are in control of your life and the direction it is heading. After all, this is the beginning of your Beautiful future! So, let’s get excited and set some goals!

Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible. “

The first step is to dream! Dream of everything you want, and have always wanted in every facet of your life. There are no limits. Make sure these are goals that *you* want for yourself, not something which sounds good or is influenced by others. Ask yourself, “What would I attempt to do, if I knew I could not fail?” “What would I want for my life if I knew I could have it?”
Allow yourself to dream like you did as a child. Let your imagination run wild! Brainstorm. Write your ideas down on paper and decide which ones are the most important to you, those which spark your passionate drive!

If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy and inspires your hopes. “

Next, we shall deliberately rewrite our goals so our subconscious mind knows precisely what it is trying to accomplish. Our goals are adding structure, vitality and commitment to the fulfillment of our dreams. We need to set goals grand enough to challenge ourselves. (Remember that if you don’t have to push yourself beyond your current limits to reach your goals, you’re not really achieving anything. To be truly successful, and reach your true potential, you must constantly push yourself to move outside of your “comfort zone”.) Words are powerful! We must recognize this in order to be truly effective in our goals and manifestations. Phrase everything in a very simple, specific and detailed form, making sure that it is phrased in the positive, as it is what we wish to create in our life, not what we don’t want. Define goals in measurable terms such as height, weight, inches, dollars, etc. This way we can measure progress until the desired outcome is reached. Also, be very specific! Write the goal out in complete and specific detail, once again, we are providing the subconscious with a detailed set of instructions to work on and the more detailed the info we provide it, the more clear the outcome becomes. The neuron connections are stronger, longer lasting and it takes longer to lose a neural connection when it was formed with great emotion, so be sure to be inspirational! Our goals will bring purpose to our lives and give us reason to get out of bed to create what has purpose, meaning and passion!

There are many areas in which we can set goals for ourselves. I have categorized mine in this way:

*Attitude: What part of my mindset is holding me back? Where could my attitude be improved?

*Career: Where do I wish to be in my career/field?

*Financial: How much do I wish to be making and by when?

*Mental/Education: Is there knowledge I wish to acquire in particular? What info/skills will I need to achieve my goals?
(note: as a very curious, perpetual student, paring this list down is an interesting challenge )

*Family/Home: Do I wish to have a family? What kind of relationship do I wish to have with those within the family? What do I want my home to look and feel like?

*Physical/Health: Are there any athletic goals I wish to achieve by a certain point in my life? Are there health issues I wish to resolve?

*Pleasure: What Fun Adventures do I wish to have in this lifetime? hehehe (this could get long!)

*Spiritual: What do I wish for my spiritual journey to look like?

*Public Service: What kind of difference do I wish to make? What can I do within my community/globally to assist?

Your role in achieving your goal must be giving your all. Involve yourself whole: with your heart, your mind and your soul. “

Next, we shall evaluate *why* we must obtain our goals. Write down all the reasons why you are committed to attaining your goals. Feel the emotions stir up inside of you. Feel the passion and drive. This will bring the goals to life! What would it look/feel like to attain our goals? How will we feel about ourselves? Will we feel proud? Will our self-esteem be raised? How will our loved ones respond? Will we feel more confident in our abilities? How will achieving our goals change our current reality? When we are clear about why we are working towards achievement of particular goals, and clear of the benefits, we will be more willing to work towards them. So, imagine the benefits and rewards and spark that desire!

Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people’s criticisms, carry out your plan.”

Keep sights set on your goals by reviewing them twice daily. Each morning and evening visualize having achieved your goals. Really use your imagination and paint a clear and detailed picture; feel it, be in it and experience it. Replace negative self-talk (thoughts in your head) with positive self-talk and affirmations. When decision-making throughout the day you can ask yourself, “Does this take me closer to, or further from my goals?” Share goals with people who love you and will support your dreams. We’re more likely to stick to our plan and reach our goals if we know that family and friends support us. Being a part of a team increases our determination, our stamina, and our courage. You deserve to be happy and have what you desire in life! Trust! The time to change your life is *NOW*. Take time to invest in the future you passionately wish to create for yourself. You have the power to create your own destiny!

Where will your goals take you?

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